The first consolation: The most important thing is the heart of today's bitter remorse
Why should the mood to lose now, so why worry for the inexplicable suicide out of fear. The past is gone forever, no matter how regret is useless . the future is still elusive, and then how will concerns about the sad empty. Today the heart, and now people do today, but it is real, but also feel good. Of course, to sum up past experiences and future To prevent the risk, this is wisdom.
yesterday is gone, and tomorrow has not come true today.
second consolation: his own heartache, why do only their own pain treatment
regrets the loss of mood. occasional complaints vent, but also very necessary, but will only add to the endless complaining about trouble, only to show their incompetence to others, complaining is a deadly negative attitude, if their Life will become a habit then complain dark, no state of mind not only their own good, but others have bad luck followed.
no good to complain, optimism is the most important.
third comfort: good state of mind is self-created
we often can not change the opinions of others, can change just only our own. a bad life is not someone else's sins, but in our hearts to become worse. to make life change for the better hands of the golden key and not in another, abandon our resentment and sigh, a better life within reach. We wanted a good life subjectively, but objectively it is not a good life, the reason is always to wait for others to improve their lives,
do not expect to change others, do their own master of life.
fourth consolation: Do the hard thing
life is too short, which people wanted to be wasted? wise philosopher once said: Some people call me on the street, I is without looking, and did not want to know the boring person! especially in the youth learn skills to go all out, do not get distracted.
fifth consolation: Do not always make life difficult for themselves with their own
learn to appreciate themselves, the same as having a golden key to get happy and appreciate their own is not idle, appreciate that they are not conceited, narcissistic appreciate that they are not to enjoy themselves more than rest on its laurels hh own interest to some of his letters that he give yourself happy, smiling face for ourselves, happiness in life does not need to worry?
often the holidays for ourselves and learn to look for feelings of pleasure.
sixth comfort: Do not chase the secular life-long search for the so-called honor
recognized what others will be lost forever frame his own music and soon cartoon happiness. vulgar comments will Ashes to Ashes his personality,UGG bailey button, will make their own secular pointing loss. for the money and the cash to make their own disowned for the right to make their own reckless right, in the name of the name to make themselves skillfully taking grab the real chase I deliberately being, will become a picture of debris flying in the wind, I have become hideous secular.
was kitsch, lost the truth, to strengthen their confidence, with self.
Seventh comfort: People often extremely desirable because of concerns
excessive mental disorders caused by their own chopsticks, but because of some insensitive, resulting in their indifference to everything. The former often find rational and pain, too clever by half and the bad, stupid is what the root of all regret. do not know remorse after the mass, all day long sleepwalk life, there is no difference between living and dead.
extremes always fail miserably, look for the wisdom of life.
Eighth comfort: you're doing someone else's evaluation of
not a painting is not evaluated by others, no one is not to be topic of discussion. If their silence, someone will accuse ; their own if the good conversationalist, someone will accuse rhetoric; own if the compliment, some people will accuse ulterior motives, and their criticism if the good, some people will fly into a rage, that nosy.
just look at someone else's face, do you not live live, have a self, not confined to self.
ninth comfort: the more evil the more deeply the pain Why can not peacefully live
? key is no time in driving the devil heart porcelain series. because the feel of evil the idea, it will not restrain myself sensibly, often make stupid remorse. because there is no time cleaning the soul the dust, weak-willed will fall into the pit from time to time. since it is often possessed, will let stupid be so blind, into the wrong fork do not know.
evil heart will distraught to evil.
tenth comfort: Be careful not to live too tired
is often lamented, live tiring. tired is the mental pressure; tired, is the heart gifts burden on IT management. tired and not tired is always relative, in order not tired, we must learn to relax, you live in a Zhang Chi. heart is tired, make long-term trapped in sub-healthy state; heart is tired, will make their own lack of energy.
not tired heart, learn to free himself.
eleventh comfort: Each person has their own life the pain of their own law
clearly understand their own sad, their own feelings of happiness, and perhaps their own eyes hell, but it is another man's heaven, heaven may be your own eye, but it is another man's hell, life is so funny, do not always suspect Spring in the people, the key is to adjust their mindset had their own lives the most important, is not better than climbing.
twelfth comfort: not to desire the slave
people always sigh People always ridiculed She Tunxiang less people. indulge their souls will eventually lose the real freedom! must be alert to bad desires.
thirteenth comfort: take life easy and happy
not blind comparisons with others, their own will be laid-back, not to set too high goals in life, their joy will often not deliberate pursuit of perfection, will be away from their pain, not always take himself, since the waterman culture itself has a living will is not often fault-finding, their own will easily.
live too tired to be in pain, contentment!
fourteenth comfort: like his will to embrace life
blindly arrogant self-esteem, is the proud ignorance of life, blindly give up on themselves, is negative and pessimistic life. understanding of their more difficult than to understand others, like themselves than like others more difficult. have a healthy self-esteem psychology proper, the face of setbacks will be shown especially strong. not for the outside world the temptation to lose themselves, not to deny their own temporary setbacks, always cool and objective evaluation of their own, often certainly appreciate his optimism.
fifteenth comfort: the use of good eyes to the world
no water to clean Fish, who had no friends to the police. everywhere can not tolerate other people's lack CROSS points, then everyone becomes bad, it can not live in peace. to see the world of evil, the world is broken remnant of everywhere; to look good see the world, the world a lovely place. himself to look at other people's strengths, the more look more lovely.
sixteenth comfort: not to please others
blindly is impossible to please everyone, and it is not necessary, to please everyone, equal to offend everyone, deliberately to please others will only make others aversion, people close to glass nature, speculative mentality to change, have the time please, not as good as working sense, always please others unreliable, their only real effort.
blindly to please others will lose self, to enrich themselves is very important.
seventeenth comfort: a done deal would have to let it mature
the rice has cooked rice, go to the previous behavior of regret, that the benefits are not, the only sensible approach is how to handle things behind, do not let things worse, thrown out of the water tin is not being paid, and has carved boat The wood is not restitution, and to know the truth of these simple, you can calmly deal with legacy issues. remorse without any benefits, not to take things worse.
eighteenth comfort: Although poor psychological not physical down and out
poor material is not terrible, terrible psychological poverty. poverty often connected with the calendar down and out, poor people often want to turn off the short and Records, psychology of poverty, the rich will become poor, psychological rich, the poor can also be converted to rich. substances with poor despair, will soon destroy a person's body, self-confidence, poor material at the moment, but the good days will come soon,
people are poor go rather short, self-improvement.
X Nine comfort: Woe Woe happiness in a moment of blessed
gains and losses are carried away by Mo, blindly intoxicated temporary victory, he must be vigilant and must not claim credit arrogant, complacent, intoxicated victory means stop and pause, intoxicated with victory, means the loss of vigilance, life on the road to never Zhong maintained, the victory is just a small sign. in order to achieve the final victory, only the effort, more effort.
Mo was confused for a moment of , who laugh at the latest, who laughed the most fun.
twentieth comfort: It is important to live each day to enrich
been good to the greatest happiness, happiness comes from feeling good every day, worried about tomorrow's overall risk, the total erase the shadow of yesterday, today, how smug life? general comparisons are not comparisons, the total fantasy that can not be achieved, how can the quiet mood today? any unrealistic things, all is the source of the pain of life is the biggest killer of sorrow and anxiety,
pain from not fulfilling, enriching life, not cranky.
twenty-one consolation: there are degrees of happiness in life should be appropriate recreational
activity can regulate emotions, the joy is easy to turn endless benefits harm. things are very anti, the number of poor is changing, Fire. is associated sorrow and joy are often accompanied by the degree will be happy.
twenty-two comfort: for a living law may be more happy
when their not liking the most at work, everywhere are feeling the wall, the the need for a change of scenery? when their very unhappy in marriage, and always feel are icehouse, have the courage to break the knot? when their accustomed submissive, will stand tall to say people who are good at adjusting their living conditions,
Do not useless to live comfortable is the spirit of happiness.
twenty-three consolation: may wish to temporarily put aside bitter bothering
Life is short that he is not happy why is always live. there are problems are normal, no worries is not normal. If your heart feel good, we might go to the movies, may wish to listen to some music, may wish to sing a song, may wish to make a phone call, might as well enjoy the sunshine hh
mind to worry about hell, the first of a happy happy.
twenty-four consolation: the foundation of pleasure in themselves generally always
pleasure in life, lies in the external affairs attached to the secular identity, the status of every possible value, property, and the benefits, reputation and other things that he once lost them, is a heavy blow, often lose, their happiness and joy the foundation also will be destroyed, if they really had such a life, then we want to be far from happy, why make others to evaluate their level of happiness, a good grasp of their own.
twenty-five consolation: feeling happy Many of Happiness hh
is in the deliberate pursuit of the so-called happiness; although some have been, its costs are huge and many philosophers have said that happiness is a feeling. the feeling of happiness and satisfaction with the decline, with people's state of mind , state of mind are closely related. sages say: get the more difficult, deeper love, with happiness, often thought difficult. One can always feel happy, is his greatest tragedy.
Happiness is a feeling, I do not know foot, and never be happy.
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